6 Things I wish I knew before starting my blog #FVBloggingTips

6 Things I wish I knew before starting my blog #FVBloggingTips

frank vinyl #BloggingtipsNowadays everybody is a blogger. Every person with a camera and something to say is out there trying to make a career out of what they love. If you’re thinking of maybe starting your own blog, than this posts for you. I hope it helps you out with some questions you might have or helps you understand this blogging world a little more in depth.

Here are 6 Things I wish I knew before I started my blog:

1. Blogging is a full time job. Blogging almost always goes into over time. I knew it would be hard work when I started, but I don’t think I knew how much hard work it would really be. As a blogger you are your own creative director, editor, manager, accountant..etc. Until you make enough money to hire team members you have to do everything on your own. Sometimes there just aren’t enough hours in the day.
Being an amazing multitasker is a must. Here’s an idea of what I do to keep my blog up and running throughout the week. Brainstorm story/concept, take the photos, edit the photos, decide which make the cut, upload the photos, write the post, upload, edit, share on all social medias, advertise it, answer emails, reach out to brands, keep track of finances/spending, attend events, answer questions from readers, research topics, check out showrooms, manage social media, create a content calendar, film video…  the list goes on.
2. Blogging is not easy.  Unfortunately there 1 million other people out there trying to do the same thing. Taking photos and uploading them is not enough to build a successful blog and get noticed by readers/companies. Most of the time, it takes a while before you begin to see any profit. I have been blogging professionally for about three years now and it wasn’t until year two that I really started to be able to call it a business. There were a lot of ups and downs, but if I would have quit I would have never made it to where I am today. Those that have made their blog successful never quit when things got rough.
People that get into blogging because they think it’s an easy way to make money or find fame are normally in for a rude awakening. Sure, you might end up having a super successful blog in the end, but blogging is a passion project and if you are not passionate about it, you can easily get frustrated by how long it could take to grow. You will need passion about what you are doing to keep moving forward throughout all the ups and downs.
3. It’s all about who you know. I’m not saying that you can only make it in the blogging world if you know people, I’m just saying you will get there a lot quicker if you do! Making the right connections will open so many doors for you. Knowing people not only opens doors, but also can help you understand how certain things work from somebody who has much more experience than you.This could be PR people, Social Media consultants, other bloggers.. anyone in the industry. I would have saved myself a lot of head aches if I had know another blogger in the industry in my earlier blogging days. Having someone to guide you and give you the 411 and possibly open even more doors for you is a game changer.
4. You can’t do it all on your own. When I first started I thought I could do everything on my own and figure it all out. Looking back I realize that it only made me take longer to get to where I wanted to be. If only I would have asked for help and admitted I didn’t know the blogging world at all. Truth is there are some things that you might not know and being able to ask for help when you need it is so important. Maybe you need a photographer friend to help with photos (if you know nothing about photography), someone to build you a website if you don’t know coding or anything about websites or you need advice on what SEO is and how to improve yours. Don’t be scared to ask! Start building your team of people you can rely on from the beginning and it will make your life much easier. A blog normally takes a lot of people to make it happen.
5. Finding your voice is number one.  Imitating other bloggers you see and trying to do what they do to “make it” is just not going to cut it. Finding your true self and who you are is the only way you will stand out amidst all the other bloggers out there. This should be a top priority. When I first started, I would just post photos that were heavily influenced by bloggers that had already made it. They were just so inspiring and it was all I knew! Years later I have found myself and use those bloggers I admire as inspiration to create a new story all my own. It’s easy to stand out if you are creating your own style and vibe.
Find out how you want to communicate to your readers, how do you want to present yourself on social media? Make sure that this voice flows throughout all your photos, writing, videos..etc. People should be able to feel like they know you. Finding your voice could take some time, but by being consistent and always keeping it in mind, your voice will show through.
6. Don’t blog for everyone. This one is a big one. Blogging for everyone is a huge mistake. The blog world is so big and everyone needs a niche. Find what you are passionate about and are good at then stick to that. If you are trying to please everyone you most likely will be pleasing nobody. You want your readers to know exactly what they are reading and what you are all about when they scroll through your blog/instagram feed.
When I first started, I was trying to merge my graphic design knowledge with fashion blogging. I would post graphic design tutorials one day and then the next day a streetstyle outfit post. I wanted to somehow combine the two, but it just made my blog look messy and I’m sure confused my readers! Was I a graphic design blog or a fashion blog? Find your niche, find your voice and stick to that throughout your blog. If it makes sense to branch out into new topics, by all means do, but just make sure it all flows in a cohesive manner.
Hope you guys liked this post and aren’t discouraged by it!  It’s all to help give you a better perspective into blog life. Would love to hear your thoughts below!
***  I’m going to be putting together a Q&A Youtube video next month so if you have any questions for me feel free to email, DM me on instagram @FrankVinyl or comment below!
xx F

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  1. Mariann yip on February 28, 2017 at 1:22 pm

    I love this post and was actually considering writing a post similar to this. I can definitely relate to the point about it being a full time job because there’s actually a lot of work!

    • Francesca Felix on February 28, 2017 at 2:00 pm

      It’s definitely a full time job! Especially if you want it to be your main source of income. Would love to see your post if you do end up writing it!

  2. Samantha Lee on February 28, 2017 at 2:47 pm

    I’ve seen so many of these blogging tip posts, but this one is actually really valuable! Love that you’re sharing the truth about how much time it takes, how it depends on you know (as with every career), and that creating authentic, GOOD content is not a piece of cake. So glad I found your blog! 🙂

    • Francesca Felix on March 1, 2017 at 2:58 pm

      I’m so happy you liked the post! I really try to give useful info for you guys. It’s so hard to know about blogging until you have a few years under your belt. Looks so glamorous (especially fashion blogging) on the outside but there is so much that goes on behind the scenes. Thanks for stopping by!

  3. Sharon Wu on February 28, 2017 at 3:02 pm

    Wonderful tips darling! I totally agree that blogging is a full time job and that it’s impossible to do it all on your own! I don’t know where I’d be without my bf who takes my photos, the guy who takes care of my web hosting, and of course my supporters! Great article babe. xo, sharon

  4. Alisha Ricki on February 28, 2017 at 3:38 pm

    Great points Franky!! I definitely need to get out and meet more people in the industry who have similar interests! xo, Alisha Ricki | Life(Style) &Travel,

  5. Stephanie on March 1, 2017 at 11:43 am

    I loved reading this so much. It actually reminded me a bit of a recent post of my own, but said with even more experience since you’ve been at this a good bit longer than I have. It’s really neat to hear from others what their life has been like in the blogging world. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us!
    Stephanie // SheSawStyle.com

    • Francesca Felix on March 1, 2017 at 2:56 pm

      I love reading about other bloggers experience also! It’s just so insightful, so I’m glad I could give a bit of knowledge as well. Happy you liked it.

  6. Miki on March 1, 2017 at 2:35 pm

    OMG I keep trying to do it all on my own and it’s so overwhelming. I am looking to hire help for the backend stuff I can’t do. It’s more than a full time job. Yesterday, I worked 14 hours alone. My butt is sore. lol I actually love your blog tips and would love to see more. Questions I have are always more specific, like which PR agencies are really good to work with. Or what have you typically outsourced. How to get more traffic to your blog? How to make instagram go up (seriously, I keep struggling). lol
    Thanks for sharing. Always love both the outfit and blog tip posts.

    • Francesca Felix on March 1, 2017 at 2:54 pm

      Theres so many aspects to blogging that it’s almost impossible to know every aspect on your own. Thanks for your questions I’m definitely going to include them in my Q&A!

  7. Jo on March 1, 2017 at 2:51 pm

    This is such a great post for newbie bloggers! I wish I had this list of really insightful tips when I first started! Blogging has been such an amazing journey for me, one I truly enjoy. Even though I knew it was going to be a lot of hard work, I don’t think I truly understood at the time just how hard it would be until I started. As you said, you can’t do it all on your own!
    xo, Jo

    • Francesca Felix on March 1, 2017 at 2:52 pm

      I know I wish I had someone in the beginning too!! It’s so hard to learn everything on your own. Thanks for stopping by love!

  8. Lou M. on March 1, 2017 at 7:25 pm

    These tips are so great, blogging can be quite tricky sometimes. I really like the part about finding your own voice
    Technicolor ? Heart

  9. Yasmin on March 1, 2017 at 10:22 pm

    These are such great tips! When you start out there’s so much to learn. So it’s really important to ask, listen, observe, and absorb. Youtube is also great with answering a lot of questions!
    xx Yasmin

  10. Linh Dao on March 2, 2017 at 7:46 pm

    haha I so can relate! I wish I knew these things and many more before I started blogging. It was more of something I just decided to do and you learn as you go! But they are all great lessons! I love your tattoo by the way! I have one in the exact spot too!

  11. Jenn Hanft on March 2, 2017 at 8:51 pm

    Ahh girl all of these things totally hit home. I wish I knew majority of this before I started, but it’s definitely a work in progress and we all learn at some point. I can’t wait until your Q&A video!! Those are always so fun and it’s also a great way to use your platform to give back to others who can relate and need guidance.
    XO Jenn

    • Francesca Felix on March 3, 2017 at 11:31 am

      I know I wish I knew these too! You learn them all along the way. Do you have any Questions for the Q & A?

  12. Jordan Chapman on March 3, 2017 at 2:49 am

    These are great tips!! I’ve had to learn them myself over the last 3 years and it’s so hard, but people don’t know that!
    Jordan xx

  13. Samantha Mariko on March 3, 2017 at 3:25 pm

    I remember reading your graphic design posts and thinking, wow she is so multi-talented! I had no idea what I was doing when I started blogging, but I feel like I’m finally starting to get the hang of it little by little. and it does help to know people that can help you out!

    • Francesca Felix on March 3, 2017 at 6:32 pm

      haha well I’m glad you saw it that way! I think it was just confusing in the end. You’re blog is great btw! Love reading it 🙂

  14. Hadasah Love | Style To Love on March 3, 2017 at 3:53 pm

    “Hi dear, this outfit looks great on you, as always I’m loving your sense of style!!! Keep it up 🙂

    “Have a nice day,

    Hadasah Love || http://www.styletolove.com

  15. Josie on March 3, 2017 at 9:39 pm

    Loved this post … number 3 and number 6 are essential. I’m learning that having the appropriate contacts can definitely change things. Also, finding your nice!!! So important. There’s an audience for everyone and we should all stay true to ourselves at the end of the day!
    Bisous, Josie

  16. Candace on March 4, 2017 at 2:46 pm

    You shared some amazing tips! I definitely wouldn’t be nearly where I am without other bloggers. They are such a blessing to me and my blog and I pray daily that I am closer to doing it full time!

  17. Thomas Falkenstedt on March 5, 2017 at 9:34 am

    I can totally relate to all this and dealt with all these issues when I began blogging 6 months ago, but thank God I had 3 & 4 covered from the beginning as that REALLY helps a lot. Other things I’ve had to learn along the way and this was a good reminder to those people who think blogging is easy and that we make huge amounts of money just by posting a picture or two.

    • Francesca Felix on March 6, 2017 at 12:37 pm

      I still can’t believe you have only been blogging that long. You are a pro!

  18. Deddeh Howard on March 5, 2017 at 6:01 pm

    What a great post!! This is one of my favorite of them all because I wish I knew all this before blogging as well. Thanks for sharing beautiful.

    • Francesca Felix on March 6, 2017 at 12:36 pm

      Yay happy you like it. I know, I wish more girls talked about this stuff! It’s all so “hush hush” and secretive. I think we should help eachother out!

  19. Kusum on March 6, 2017 at 10:52 am

    I could not agree more with you on everything you have said babe! People think blogging is easy, but its quite the opposite, it involves so much hard work and dedication.
    xx, Kusum | http://www.sveeteskapes.com

    • Francesca Felix on March 6, 2017 at 12:35 pm

      It’s so hard! And only those that are really passionate about it end up have successful blogs! Glad you liked the post!

  20. Christine Kong on March 6, 2017 at 10:37 pm

    This is a great post and even for a blogger like me who started out almost a year ago. I love the tips and they are all relevant and so true. I appreciate the advice and take them to heart. Blogging is definitely more than a full time job and requires so much out of us than what people think. You continue to inspire me always! xoxo, Christine

  21. Atsuna Matsui on March 7, 2017 at 3:20 pm

    Thanks for these tips. I’m definitely still learning, but I’m so happy that I’m doing blogging full time as it does require a lot of time! I haven’t built that many connections while blogging but I was interested in hearing your take on how that has helped advanced your blogging career.

  22. Floortje on March 7, 2017 at 11:28 pm

    It’s great to read your honest opinion about the blogging business and I totally feel you with these! Great post hun!

  23. Hadasah Love (Style to Love) on March 14, 2017 at 1:28 pm

    I really love the pictures and look.
    Hadasah Love || http://www.styletolove.com

  24. marcy on March 15, 2017 at 4:17 am

    Such great post babe! I decided to do full time blogging 4 months ago and I must say I sleep less than my previous full tim job hahaha but its also awesome to have your own freedom and work from any place you want 🙂

  25. Bernice on March 16, 2017 at 5:32 am

    This is so insightful and I’ve noticed similar experiences with many bloggers. It’s amazing how all our journeys can be so full of obstacles yet opportunities!

  26. Monique | WritingMonique on March 17, 2017 at 1:51 am

    YES! You’re so right about all these points. Loved reading this, cause I was nodding along all the way 🙂

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